Healing Childhood Neglect: Transforming Relationships Through Presence and Attention, Day 12

Giving ourselves the attention we deserve is not just self-care—it's transformative. On Day 12 of the Orgasmic Alchemy journey, I invite you to explore the profound impact that presence and attention can have on our lives and relationships. This episode draws from my personal experiences with childhood neglect, and how they have shaped my adult relationships. By nourishing these neglected parts of ourselves with love and presence, we can begin to heal and manifest healthier connections. For me, it was a journey of self-realization catalyzed by a partner who struggled to give me the attention I needed (because of his sex addiction). Let's uncover how healing from these patterns can lead to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.

This conversation serves as an invitation for you to reflect on your own journey and the recurring patterns in your relationships. Whether you're on a path to heal from childhood neglect or aiming to enhance your romantic partnership, I'm here to support you with personalized guidance. Together, we can transform core issues into opportunities for growth. If this resonates with you, let's connect on Instagram at The Good, The Bad, and The Sexy. And consider reaching out for one-on-one or couple sessions. Together, let's support each other in creating the love we deserve.

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Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:01

Hey babe, day 12 of the Orgasmic Alchemy journey, so I'd love to know where you're at. Are you doing the practices? Are you healing big stuff? Have you manifested new things? Are you feeling challenged? Please share with me your experience in the comments below or you can DM me on Instagram.

Speaker 1: 0:20

And today, continuing on, I was feeling into the energies in my abdomen as they have been distressed. They've been calling out for my attention and, because that's how that works and it turns out, the attention that this part of me needed was attention. It was starving for love and dying for attention, and sitting in the sensation of this Whereas I recently have been like this feels awful. I don't want to feel it and it is a starving sensation. It's starving, so I've been feeding it and causing, causing intestinal distress, because that's not actually what I need. What I actually need is to sit with the starving. What I need, what I actually need, is to sit with the starving, sit with the neglected piece of me and let it be nourished with love. Maybe some energetic food, that might be a thing, but what it really really needs is eyes on it. It needs ears on it, it needs presence, and so I am giving it my presence and recognizing. You know where this came from.

Speaker 1: 1:51

As a child, I felt very neglected, super crazy, lonely and, interestingly, as I say, like we are always manifesting that romantic partner to heal our childhood stuff, I manifested the husband who could not pay attention to me. All of his attention could be paid to porn and TV and his phone, but not to me, because that was that was what we were there to work out together. So like I needed him to neglect me, I needed him to not pay attention to me so I could heal this. But I thought that we could heal it together, like he would get to heal his piece of it and my piece of it. But we were doing it together, um, and that didn't happen. And here we are, and maybe you know, for the best, that I can give myself this attention so that the next partner can pay attention to me and can pay attention to us and what we're creating together. Because if I can't pay attention to myself, how on earth could anyone else Like that? Just if I'm not in alignment with giving myself that attention, I can't manifest someone who can. And I mean, as I am here with all these pieces of myself, it's time to do it so that I don't have to manifest another partner who can't pay attention, so that the next person I can jump into or ease into relationship with it can be without that struggle, as you know we might have.

Speaker 1: 3:48

We might have a couple other things to work through. Actually, I would love a relationship that's graceful and easy um, healers don't usually intend that, but oh, that sounds so nice. Like I do intend to heal and evolve together, but like joyfully, gracefully, pleasurably, um resonated with any of that and you feel like you would like some support in healing childhood neglect and how it's manifested in your relationship today, or you feel like you have some other issue that is affecting your relationship? I am here to support you with one on one sessions and one on two. So if you want to come in your romantic partnership, I'll work with both of you and we will dive in and uncover what are the core things that are keeping you from having the romantic love you desire and deserve now and we'll alchemize those in the most graceful, beautiful ways possible.

Speaker 1: 5:13

And there is a link below to connect with me, and do look out for the Erotic Evolution podcast coming soon. There's probably a link to follow me on Spotify and all the other places by the time I get this up. All right, I will see you tomorrow.

Speaker 2: 5:36

Thanks for listening to this episode of the good, the bad and the sexy. I hope that it served you in some way and, if it did, please reach out to me on Instagram at the good, the bad and the sexy and tell me about it. Also, is there someone in your life who needs to get in on this conversation? I would love it if you would share the show with them. It's so much more fun to talk through these things together. Remember to get your free follow along. Orgasmic alchemy self pleasure audio guide in the show notes below. I look forward to connecting with you again next time. Ciao, for now.