Embracing the Unexpected: The Power of Letting Go for Greater Fulfillment, Day 15

Have you ever considered that letting go of your deepest desires might actually be the key to manifesting them? Join me in this heartfelt exploration as I share personal experiences and insights on embracing a nonchalant attitude towards life’s outcomes. Drawing inspiration from recent interactions with teachers, neighbors, and even social media encounters, I discuss the freedom and acceptance that comes from loosening your grip on specific goals. From my own journey of making peace with the idea of never getting married to learning to trust life’s plan, this episode is a sincere invitation to reflect on how tightly we hold onto what we want.

Through stories and lessons learned, I encourage listeners to open their minds to the power of letting go. By adopting a mindset of openness, unexpected transformations and greater fulfillment can unfold. Whether it’s about your romantic relationships, career aspirations, or personal growth, I’m here to inspire you to trust that life knows what it’s doing. Plus, I’m extending an open invitation for those willing to discuss their romantic journeys on an upcoming episode. Let's embrace the beauty in uncertainty together and allow life to surprise us with its most beautiful gifts.


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Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:02

Hey, lovey, it's day 16. Tell me what's going on for you. Did you get the alchemical self-pleasure guide in the link below? If not, definitely do that, so you can play along and pleasurably alchemize and heal and transform and upgrade your life. Join, join the portal, get on in here. Um, and the erotic evolution podcast is coming soon. If you would like to have a conversation with me about your romantic relationship, you, or you and your partner, uh, can come on the show. So send me a DM. Tell me if you would like to have a conversation about what is going on in your relationship, what you have learned in your relationship, how you've, how you want to transform or how you have transformed. Um, yeah, let's, let's get on and have a chat chat.

Speaker 1: 1:05

So after my academy journey that I talked about briefly yesterday, um, as I drove home, I was like I'm gonna listen to Abraham on YouTube because that is so high vibrational, and I listened to a video where they were talking about um or what came up with. The person they were talking to was um, about how you have to let go of your desire for the thing to actually happen, because if you're holding on so tightly that I have to have this thing to happen, then you're actually like somehow, you're like invisible to your desire, to your goal. It like it can't see you and um. And then I was in a class in the morning, um, and that came up with um, the other student and the teacher were talking about letting go, just like surrendering the desire to have whatever this thing was that she wanted. And that's when it came in. And and then I'm talking to my neighbor and he says the same thing.

Speaker 1: 2:39

And then I go through my Instagram and watch a video that I posted about how getting what you want is about not giving a fuck. And that's how I manifest things is by having this nonchalant sort of attitude. And then it shows up because I'm like, oh, I would like this thing, but like whatever and let it go. And then, ta-da, so, so I'm not in the space of I don't want to grieve the not having to let it go, cause when I was so desperate to get married and I was living with my partner and I was like it's it's never going to happen for me, and I was in the shower and I just had, was like it's never going to happen for me, and I was in the shower and I just had this like massive weeping experience to like let go of the like you know, like processing that this was never going to happen for me. I would like this to be much easier than that.

Speaker 1: 4:01

Um, and there was a few more steps in between my, my grieving, my never getting married, to accept that like I was going to be okay, never getting married, um, which I think is the thing. Like, this thing can happen or it cannot happen and I'll be okay, no matter what that's. That's the belief system that I need to get into. Whether this happens or not, I'm gonna be okay, everything's gonna be fine. There might even be a better plan. Um, so I am willing to accept that the things I'm desiring right now may never happen. But, like I was going to say, I am at this place where I'm like I'm still wanting to be like okay, yeah, I don't care, I'm letting it go so that it'll happen. I'll let it go so I can have it. I'll let it go. Is it here yet? I'm like I'm not, I'm not looking, I'm not looking.

Speaker 1: 5:09

Um, so the willingness as I continue to talk about, I am willing to I'm not even sure how to say I'm willing to be okay if I never meet my next romantic partner. I'm willing to be okay if I'm single forever. I'm willing to be okay if this career doesn't take off in the way that I desire it to. I'm willing to relax and let life bring me what's best for me. I think that's probably the overarching, all-encompassing place to be, so I don't have to be like, well, I can be without this and I can be without this and I can be without this because I have a long list of desires, everything and all the things. I can let them go, I'm willing to let them go and let whatever is best come in.

Speaker 1: 6:21

I mean it's it's kind of hard to believe that the divine has a better vision of the future than I do, but I think it's probably true.

Speaker 1: 6:34

And I think there is, you know, being in this human experience where I'm so often like I don't get why I can't just be where I want to be, when I want to be there, I, you know all these physical things that, where we are in our spiritual evolution, like we can't just do that, don't make sense to me.

Speaker 1: 7:03

Um, and that is one of the things about being human and being in this sort of density, that, like things, things can happen magically and very quickly, but sometimes things take a while and maybe what I'm doing now is gonna lead to something that leads to something that leads to something that leads to this fantastic ultimate desire, and maybe that takes five years and maybe that takes 25 years and whatever it is, I want to have fun getting there, so changing the mood and the mindset about where I am at in my life. I can be okay, I can have fun in this present moment with the having or the not having of the man and the money and the audience of a million people in the book deals and yada, yada, yada. Um. So what are you willing to let go of today to maybe let something even better in? I would love to know. Maybe a comment below, and I'll see you tomorrow.

Speaker 2: 8:35

Thanks for listening to this episode of the Good, the Bad and the Sexy. I hope that it served you in some way and, if it did, please reach out to me on Instagram at the good, the bad and the sexy and tell me about it. Also, is there someone in your life who needs to get in on this conversation? I would love it if you would share the show with them. It's so much more fun to talk through these things together. Remember to get your free follow along. Orgasmic alchemy self pleasure audio guide in the show notes below. I look forward to connecting with you again next time. Ciao, for now.