Energetic Bonds and Transformative Love Journeys

Explore the transformative journey of healing from love addiction, codependency, and scarcity as I, Elizabeth Angelica, promise to guide you through the intricate world of manifesting fulfilling romantic partnerships and true abundance. What if idealizing partners is sabotaging your relationships? Unravel this mystery with me as we examine how conscious transformation and energy medicine can reshape your love life. Together, we'll explore practices like eye-gazing and energetic love-sharing, pondering whether they strengthen bonds or complicate them further. This episode promises to connect your self-beliefs with the partners you attract, offering insights into cultivating healthier and more authentic relationships.

Dive into self-discovery and embrace your sexuality as I encourage a community of shared experiences and reflections. Discover the power of recognizing patterns from past traumas and how inner work can foster genuine connections. I invite you to engage in meaningful discussions on Instagram, enhancing your understanding and enjoyment of these themes. And for those intrigued by personal growth, don't miss out on the free orgasmic alchemy self-pleasure audio guide available in the show notes. Let's continue this enriching conversation and connect over these transformative topics in future episodes.

Chapters

• 0:02 Navigating Relationships and Self-Discovery
• 15:05 Embracing Sexuality and Connection

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:02

Hi, this is Elizabeth Angelica, and you're listening to the good, the bad and the sexy where I'm going to be spilling all the intimate aspects on my journey of healing love, addiction, codependency and scarcity, and how I'm manifesting new romantic partnership and creating sovereign abundance. All this through the wild and wonderful lens of conscious transformation, energy medicine. Through the wild and wonderful lens of conscious transformation, energy medicine, non-dual spiritual magic and my orgasmic alchemy practices. All right, here we go. Hey, babe, I have read that chocolate cravings are what you crave when you're actually craving romantic love. If someone were to witness me this week, they would think you know, aside from this lady probably having a pretty severe magnesium deficiency, it looks like she's been single for years and they would be correct. I wonder if you can create someone so perfect, so compatible in your mind that that keeps real people from coming into your experience. I read once that the more that you see really, really good looking people like our movie stars and models, that the less willing you are to be with an average looking person because you're like, no, I'm waiting for this, you know, avengers, beautiful man to come into your life. Obviously, that's what a good partner looks like. So the the person in my brain that is obviously wildly attractive and I know that the more that you love someone, the more beautiful they become that just looking into someone's eyes, you can fall so deeply in love with them and think that they are the most beautiful person you have ever seen. Now, if you are struggling in your relationship, this is a really, really good idea. But if you want to leave them for real if you really should leave them don't do this practice. I'm about to tell you this kept me and my ex-husband together for quite some time.

Speaker 1: 3:06

Now I also know that what happened was was exactly what was meant to happen and I left exactly when I was meant to. But we what? We were having a lot of trouble and I asked if we could do this eye gazing and energetic love sharing practice daily, and we did for a while. We would sit on the bed and look into one another's eyes and we would breathe together and you imagine that the love from their heart is coming into your heart, sort of like this infinity loop from their heart to your heart. So you're each being filled up with this person's love, with your partner's love, and it feels amazing and it makes you very in love with this person.

Speaker 1: 4:04

I recommend it said if you really need to leave, maybe don't do it, but also, sometimes you really think we need to leave and we really need to find more acceptance for that person. I listened to I guess it was like a short on YouTube this, this guy who teaches about I think mostly he teaches women how to get a guy and he was saying on some show he was on that if you, you might think that the person that you're with is this amazing person and you're actually so lucky to be with them not his words at all, my interpretation but like this is a person that you think is a fantastic person, but if you feel terrible when you're with him, them then that is the actual experience and you should leave because you feel terrible when you're with this person. I would say I would like to argue that, yes, there are people we should definitely run away from. We should not be in relationship with an abusive person. However, if you are feeling that way, you might be feeling that way about yourself. Therefore, you will feel that way about yourself, no matter who you're with. If you're going to feel like you're a not good person in whatever way, that's probably a belief system that you're holding right. You would not manifest someone who made you feel like shit into your life, unless you already felt like shit about yourself. And they are, in whatever way, offering you this gift of noticing how you feel about yourself, whether it's because they're actually treating you terribly, so that you can be like oh, this is what I believe I deserve, this is what I actually think of myself. This is a vibration I'm holding myself at, and once you recognize that and are able to alchemize that, you're not going to resonate with someone who treats you poorly. You're just gonna shift out of one another's life. There's gonna be a moment where you're like, oh, it's time for me to go, or maybe it's you know. Suddenly they break up with you, or suddenly or maybe not so suddenly they turn into the person that you actually do want to be with. They start treating you better because you believe you deserve to be treated well.

Speaker 1: 7:09

I have seen so many times partners change when you are working on yourself. They write. The vibration you're putting out is different, so what is being reflected back to you is different. Where am I going with this? So we can all take a moment and ask ourselves what part of me believes that I deserve this.

Speaker 1: 7:40

If you're having a unpleasant experience, you know how is this. How is this the safety that I am needing in my life. If your early life was challenging, you are going to go out into the world and create something similar, because that sort of challenging, that sort of trauma, that sort of drama is where you feel safe. Right, we meet someone and we're like oh my god, he feels like home. What part of home have you not alchemized that this person is going to then bring into your experience?

Speaker 1: 8:33

I feel like the more, and I want to find a relationship where it's like. But I also know from previous experiences and seeing other people's relationships that the quicker you fall for someone like that and the more you're like oh my god, they feel like home. I feel like I've known you forever. Right, that's soulmate feeling. I'm inclined to feel that that means the more, the more they're gonna trigger you, the more work you have to do together. Right, yeah, we want, we want to do that work, and there's so many things you can't heal outside of romantic relationship, because we're here to have relationships. This is, this is how we are evolving. This is what we're here to do, you don't come to a planet of whatever is it? What do we have? Like eight billion people right now to be alone, which makes me curious why I've been single for like four years. But you know, I have so many relationships inside this multitude of my own being. I guess that I have to be at, I have to be at a specific level within myself to attract the sort of person that I want to be with. This go around. I don't have time to fuck around with addicts anymore.

Speaker 1: 10:12

My moving forward intention I want to build. I want to to build love. I don't want to fall in love. I don't want to fall in love like it's a well where I will break some body part and be stuck in the dark. I would love to step gently into love. I would love to build a friendship and I had a friend who said I need to wait a while before I have sex with someone. All those hormones make you think you're in love. You you have an orgasm with someone. Your hormones, your body's like I love them. This is I'm gonna be with this person when you don't really know them. You might not even really like who they are. Like my last mini relationship, I had this oh, maybe it could be him. Maybe he'll turn into the sort of person I want to be with. No, he is who he is. He's not maybe gonna be anybody else ever. But there was a sort of desperation and a sort of hormonal influence. So I'm thinking at least three weeks, at least three weeks of cultivating a relationship before sleeping with them, and it might be kind of nice. My marriage started as long-d distance so we had a lot of time on the phone. It was definitely that quick fall soulmate thing like I was living across the country with him. In three months I think it's me trying to Move again. In three weeks I will have lived in Austin for a year and a half, which is generally when I move somewhere else, since I grew up moving Every summer or every other summer, this being here a year and a half and a year ago I was doing reconnaissance, trying to find a new place to live.

Speaker 1: 12:38

I was sure I was moving to Savannah Georgia for a little place to live. I was sure I was moving to Savannah Georgia for a little while. And here I am thinking I'm not convinced about this place gonna be Halloween this week and it's still in the 90s and everything is dead and the trees are so short. Can you call a cedar tree a tree? It's like a bush living in amongst the bushes, not the evergreen forests of my imagination. So if I met someone on a podcast, he might not necessarily live here, so maybe I could move somewhere else.

Speaker 1: 13:23

But also, for the first time in my life I have I've made friends and created community and there is a lot of potential here. There is a lot of potential here. There's a lot of people who would take the workshops that I am going to offer. There's a lot of things to do and potential and opportunity. But I'm so far away from the ocean. I'm holding the vision also of having a house on the coast, living on the ocean again and wanting to stay available to what is best for me. I think it would be good to have a home base. You know this could be home base and then travel. So we'll see. We'll see what the combination of soul, plan and desire and magic is desire and magic is. So I hope that your, your day, your week, your life feels filled with abundance and magic and romantic. I don't know romantic, what Romantic bliss. Let's go with that, all right. Sending you so much love. See you soon.

Speaker 1: 15:05

Thanks for listening to this episode of the good, the bad and the sexy. I hope that it served you in some way and, if it did, please reach out to me on Instagram at the good, the bad and the sexy and tell me about it. Also, is there someone in your life who needs to get in on this conversation? I would love it if you would share the show with them. It's so much more fun to talk through these things together. Remember to get your free follow along orgasmic alchemy self-pleasure audio guide in the show notes below. I look forward to connecting with you again next time. Ciao, for now, you.