Redefining Self-Worth: Embracing Inner Value Beyond Societal Success

This episode explores the deep journey of self-worth and the transformative experiences that reveal our true essence. Elizabeth provides insights into the significance of breathwork, the role of relationships in mirroring our self-perception, and how to redefine success through self-acceptance.

• Discusses transformative shifts in self-worth 
• Explores breathwork as a method for releasing self-disgust 
• Highlights the impact of relationship dynamics on self-perception 
• Encourages recognizing mirrors in our lives for self-reflection 
• Calls for a shift in definition of success and self-worth

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:02

Hi, this is Elizabeth Angelica, and you're listening to the good, the bad and the sexy where I'm going to be spilling all the intimate aspects on my journey of healing love, addiction, codependency and scarcity, and how I'm manifesting new romantic partnership and creating sovereign abundance. All this through the wild and wonderful lens of conscious transformation, energy medicine. Through the wild and wonderful lens of conscious transformation, energy medicine, non-dual spiritual magic and my orgasmic alchemy practices. All right, here we go. Hello, my dove, my dear, my darling, so happy to be back with you. It has been such a week, just so much transformation. I love this space we're in together that holds that capacity for graceful alchemy so beautiful. So let's start with the big stuff, the self-worth stuff. So it was incredibly beautiful how the shifts in self-worth came this week, with all of the sessions that I did and the and the supportive healers in my life who worked with me and and all the information flowing in to just change my mind, help me see things the way they really are, help me see the truth of myself and my situation and my soul and my life and and you know that everything is in perfect divine order. I I released so much and and the understanding that my path, this path that I have chosen, this, this path that I desire, that my soul. Where you know, you meet mothers and first thing they tell you about themselves is that their son is a doctor. Okay, um, so I thought that that will, was, was what was going to be. That validated me in this life. That showed me that I was truly worthy, because I sort of thought that was the only way that one could be worthy and I wanted it so bad. I married a doctor. Turns out he didn't feel the way about himself that we imagine a doctor would feel about themselves, and maybe there are some that do. We're all different, so so my path, I am now truly seeing and feeling and understanding, you know, and this has been a struggle for a long, long time Back in the day, when it was like I was trying to convince myself that my path was perfect because I wasn't married and having a bunch of kids 10 years ago.

Speaker 1: 3:42

But now it's been this whole career thing ago. But now it's been this whole career thing and I have probably many times now mentioned this, this person I have a crush on, and how he's been this gauge for me to see where I'm at with my self-worth, like I thought that he was too good for me because he has this successful career. But my career path is perfect for me and being a podcaster doesn't make me lesser than him. Making I mean making less money doesn't make me lesser than him and obviously I'm going to be making so much more money than him or any person who okay, not any person. I want to stay available to marrying rich um, but I certainly have the desire and the potential to make more money than my partner. But the but the truth is what I'm. What I'm trying to say is that that's not where my self-worth lies. My self-worth lies and I have been believing that that was the truth for my entire life and we call it. You know how much are they worth, right? So it's not like I came up with this nonsense on my own, but I can see now that I can be equal to someone who has that quote big, fancy job, that high paying job, that sort of job that you know takes up far too much of their time and probably their identity, and may or may not be what brings them the contentment and the satisfaction and the self-pride and the fulfillment that they desire. Any job can bring you, that. Any job can bring you that. Oh, actually, I think that's the inside job, right? You can feel that about your career. If you feel that about yourself, right, it's all self-pride.

Speaker 1: 6:37

So I went to the breathwork and before we even started, I saw, I guess, what was going to happen in the session or maybe it just happened instantly with my intention to be working on it. I saw this beautiful, big, glowing pearl of light. That was my true essence, that was my true worth, my true essence, that was my true worth. And it was like this sort of flower opened up, all these petals opened up and dropped away to reveal what was on the inside. And during the session, I purged all sorts of self-disgust. And as it was going, as I was feeling this self-disgust and you know, being aware that that is what was releasing, because that's what I was feeling deeply at that time that it wasn't even mine the disgust that I have been holding about myself all of this time, the disgust I've been hiding from myself and hiding from other people, and it didn't belong to me to begin with. There isn't anything disgusting about me. This is other people's, you know, ancestors, they're nonsense. So letting that go and, if you need to let it go yourself, right now we can just take a few deep breaths and let go of any self-disgust that is coming up for you, any belonging to you or not belonging to you, seeing it into the breeze, into the earth burned up by the sunlight. However, you do, allowing more and more and more of the brilliance of our beings to shine on our lives and on our world.

Speaker 1: 8:54

And I noticed, after this breath work, that this person that I have been crushing on I guess we'll say because it's like you know, I'll see him, and it's like for 24 hours I'm like Ooh, um, that I felt differently in relation to him. I felt like, oh, maybe, maybe this could be a thing Legit. I don't know if this person and I have a single thing in common. I don't know if we would have any like any potential for conversational banter or have you know? I don't know if there's a thing there. It's just a, it's just a feeling and it might just be a.

Speaker 1: 9:53

He is that gauge, he is that mirror and is showing me what, that there are men like this in the world. His best friend might be my guy, who freaking knows if I even stay in austin, if I even stay in Austin but I am now understanding that as a mirror for me, that he's actually mirroring self-confidence and self-worth and success in all these different ways. He's mirroring what is what is inside me. All of that that I swoon about when I am in his presence is within me. In his presence is within me and that feels so much better. It feels so much better to recognize that he's showing me actually how incredible I am, how successful I am, how beautiful and capable. I am right, because what we see in other people is what is in us. That's how we know that it's there, that we notice it right. If we notice something awful, it only bothers us because it's within us. If we notice something amazing and beautiful, we notice it because it's in us. So life is mirror all the time and I am doing this daily now.

Speaker 1: 11:51

So I will be back with you tomorrow with more things to say and I'm sending you so much love. Thanks for listening to this episode of the good, the bad and the sexy. I hope that it served you in some way and, if it did, please reach out to me on Instagram at the good, the bad and the sexy and tell me about it. Also, is there someone in your life who needs to get in on this conversation? I would love it if you would share the show with them. It's so much more fun to talk through these things together. Remember to get your free follow along. Orgasmic alchemy self-pleasure audio guide in the show notes below. I look forward to connecting with you again next time. Ciao for now.